Friday, December 30, 2011
When that ineffable compound of depression, sadness (these two are not the same), anxiety, self-hatred, sense of failure and fear for the future begins to steal over you, start telling yourself that what you have is a hangover. You are not sickening for anything, you have not suffered a minor brain lesion, you are not all that bad at your job, your family and friends are not leagued in a conspiracy of barely maintained silence about what a s**t you are, you have not come at last to see life as it really is and there is no use crying over spilt milk. Kingsley Amis
Tuesday, December 6, 2011

Not Everyone is Trying to Screw You Over

Megan McArdle wrote a nice post at the Atlantic questioning the over the top criticism of Reed Hastings of Netflix and other leaders who make seemingly terrible decisions. Her post is mainly regarding business leaders, but the same logic applies to politicians and other public leaders.

It’s not a popular position to take at the moment, but the majority of elected representatives and public leaders really are generally smart, competent, and want the best for their constituents. Simply because a President, Senator, Judge, etc makes a decision that you believe is hugely idiotic, doesn’t mean the decision maker is pulling the strings on some complex web of corrupt and backdoor negotiations intended to screw you over.

Most elected representatives have built lives around public service and have sacrificed monetarily and personally by running for a position that comes with great scrutiny.

Of course there are cases of horribly corrupt politicians and staff out to gain personally at the expense of the public. And skepticism is to be encouraged in all venues, especially policy making. It is the duty of an informed public to cast a critical eye on decision-making leaders.

But assuming the worst out of every public leader without seeing an issue from multiple points is doing a disservice to the elected individual, the public he is charged to serve, and the process itself. Sometimes, there are no good decisions to be made, but it doesn’t mean someone is out to screw you over.

Wednesday, November 9, 2011
It’s a kitchen. Its curtains fill
with a morning light so bright
you can’t see beyond its windows
into the afternoon. A kitchen
falling through time with its things
in their places, the dishes jingling
up in the cupboard, the bucket
of drinking water rippled as if
a truck had just gone past, but that truck
was thirty years. No one’s at home
in this room. Its counter is wiped,
and the dishrag hangs from its nail,
a dry leaf. In housedresses of mist,
blue aprons of rain, my grandmother
moved through this life like a ghost,
and when she had finished her years,
she put them all back in their places
and wiped out the sink, turning her back
on the rest of us, forever.
Ted Kooser, “A Room in the Past”
Friday, November 4, 2011
Cannon Beach, Oregon

Cannon Beach, Oregon

Thursday, August 25, 2011
brentmurray:

Lexington Avenue.

brentmurray:

Lexington Avenue.